![]() Neither will looks make life that much easier, not professionally or personally. ( how do you fedl about yourself?) At the end of the day no guy or girl will like you for the way you look alone. The pressure is real but only important if its important to you. Also i have realised my skin looks fine and im not sure what more can be done for it! Its like disciplining yourself with anything else. Il order one product and feel very satisfied and then turn that switch OFF. The beauty rabbit hole is what i indulge in twice a week. I have bigger concerns, i have to get back to my other reading projects, calling my friends, and whatever goes into a normal life. But, there is a point when i know that im being indulgrnt, escapist and downright flaky. I love, love my make up and im on all the beauty subs here. My skin is that of a 30 something and body not so much. Im just as vain as the next 45 year old ( ok, 48). Without sounding too preachy ( or philosophical) i truly believe the obsession with looks is filling a vacuum. I feel like if I don’t do these things often, I will end up alone and no guy will want me it’s like this weird association that I have I hope I am not alone I wanna hear everyone’s thoughts about this and how to deal with this feeling, I wanna be myself and comfortable and do my own thing but I can’t believe it’s getting to my head. I only cut and paint my nails at home and I don’t see the point of spending money every 2 weeks, I do it only as a treat but I feel paranoid like “ they don’t look polished enough bc they were not done at a salon”. The pressure of looking perfect from head to toe includes having your nails “ on point “ I see a lot of ppl get manicures religiously at the salon. I do a lot of shopping and buy a lot of skincare and clothes, shoes and bags just to fulfill that gap of not being good enough, I hope I am not the only one who feels like this. Its like exhausting to live up to today’s standards, like now I feel like I will never be good enough because I don’t have lip injections or a perfect flat belly. ![]() Specially that I just turned 28 and I am starting to really get paranoid about aging and trying to take care of my body and skin, but somehow it still feels not good enough and I feel overwhelmed from the pressure of this crazy maintenance I never felt like this before, I guess I am always surrounded by people who just talk about these things like Botox and a new “ magic diet “. ![]() I think I am beginning to get sucked into the social media hole of perfection like sometimes I look at the girls on YouTube and insta and they go on all these facials and appointments to get Botox makes me think : “ yeah I am never gonna look perfect because I don’t do these things “. I am always presentable but sometimes I get a bit lazy and I need a break from all the maintenance of being “ a girl” like sometimes I forget to do my brows or some days I don’t go hard on my skincare routine. Please report any comments that fit this description so we can act accordingly.ĭoes anyone else feel this huge pressure to look perfect all the time ? Like recently I’ve been feeling like I need to look flawless all the time. Rude, offensive, judgmental, sexualized, and generally mean comments will be removed and the user risks getting banned at the mods' discretion. If your content gets stuck and you feel it doesn't break any rules, message the mods. Use the report button generously for possible spam and inappropriate content or comments.Īnything that gets stuck in the spam filter will most likely stay there, especially if you post blogposts, product promotions, and youtube videos. Youtube videos are not permitted for now but the community can have a vote if there are enough mod messages requesting them.Īccounts older than 2 days with 25+ karma are allowed to contribute to the community. ![]() ![]() Self posts, pictures, and links are acceptable, but they should be your own content if possible or useful to the community. ![]()
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